How to meet Black women on Ebony Amour
- Create your free profile. Add a few photos, say a little about yourself and what you are looking for.
- Search. Look for members by location and interests, and read profiles properly before you decide who to write to.
- Send a message. Mention something from her profile and ask one question.
- Take your time. Keep talking on the site until you both feel comfortable, then arrange to meet.
Make your profile work for you
Women decide quickly whether to reply, and your profile is what they read first. A few things help:
- Use clear, recent photos where you are easy to see.
- Write a few honest lines about your interests and what you are looking for. Be specific: "I love Sunday cooking and long walks" says more than "I like having fun".
- Verify your profile. The verified tick shows other members that you are who you say you are.
The first message
Keep it short and about her. Pick something she wrote and ask a question about it.
"I saw you love live music. Who was the best act you have seen?"
If you would like more ideas, read our guide to dating Black women.
Places to meet Black women in person
Many people meet online first and in person second, but you can do both. Some places to look:
- Community events and festivals. Cultural events, markets and local celebrations bring people together around something they enjoy.
- Faith and community groups. Many have social events open to newcomers.
- Clubs and classes. Book clubs, fitness classes, running groups and creative workshops give you something to talk about.
- Volunteering. Working beside someone on a project shows you what they are like.
- Professional and networking events. A good way to meet people who share your work or interests.
Go for the activity, not only for the chance to meet someone. You will enjoy it more, and the conversations tend to come more easily.
Meeting online or in person: which suits you?
Meeting people online lets you read about someone and start a conversation before you meet, at your own pace. It can also save time, because you can search for people who share your interests and are looking for the same things. Meeting in person gives you an instant sense of who someone is. Many people find that the two work well together: start the conversation on Ebony Amour, then take it offline when you both feel ready.
Features that make meeting people easier
- Search. Find people near you who share your interests and preferences.
- Discovery feed. See posts and updates from members and get to know them before you message.
- Ratings and badges. Every member has a rating, and members who reliably reply earn a badge.
- Chat groups. Join moderated live chat groups, or set up a private group with friends.
- Privacy. You do not need to share your phone number to chat.
Staying safe
Keep your first conversations on the site, meet somewhere public the first time and tell a friend where you will be. You do not need to give out your phone number, and every profile has a report button.